Category: Family
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My Mother.
People have plenty to say about my mother. Are they right? Maybe. But do they need to put it across in such a harsh, cruel way? Not at all. I know what she was. I know where she went wrong. I know the ways she failed me, the times she put me in harmβs way.…
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Bottom of the Barrel.
People use the term βworking class,β but growing up, I didnβt even feel like working class. I felt worse, like I was at the very bottom of the barrel. A junkie’s rejected daughter, My mum and stepdad never worked (until later in life), they claimed benefits for as long as I can remember. Even though…
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HAPPY NEW YEAR, you bunch of legends!
Blimey, Iβve been up and down like a f**king yo-yo. Feels like the last few blogs Iβve done were just one long, droning βwoe is meβ session. Blah blah blah, whinge whinge whinge. But letβs have it right, hand on heart, Iβve got a cracking life. My kids are top-notch. Theyβre gonna make bloody marvellous…
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My Step Dad the White Rasta.
Where do I even begin with my stepdad? Back in the 80s and 90s, he was a white Rasta, fully immersed in Rastafarian culture. He worshiped Jah, the Rastafarian term for God, a spiritual figure rooted in Ethiopian emperor Haile Selassie, whom Rastafarians revere as a messiah. My stepdad couldnβt have been more different from…
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Complicated Love.
Iβve been feeling a deep sense of longing for home lately. As someone from the North who moved South at 21, Iβve spent years adapting to a place that often feels foreign. My boyfriend is from London, and our children were born in the south, they have grown up with southern accents and culture. My…