Bipolar Mum Journey

Sex is often considered a taboo topic, making people hesitant to discuss it in a healthy manner. When sex is not openly talked about, it can take on a seedy or shameful connotation. However, sex is a natural part of life, and when shared between two people who care for each other, it can be a beautiful experience. Exploring different aspects of intimacy together can be both enjoyable and fulfilling for both partners.

On the other hand, a narcissist may use sex as a tool for manipulation. You might not want to be intimate, but find yourself awakened in the night to them taking advantage of you. They may insist on degrading acts and forcing rough sex upon you. During these encounters, they might call you derogatory names, which may seem insignificant at the time but can leave you feeling worthless afterward.

These behaviours are common tactics used by narcissists. For example, after an argument, a narcissist might demand sex to reassert control. They often ignore any discomfort or pain you express, telling you to be quiet and endure it.

In the early stages of a relationship with a narcissist, you may notice they are affectionate and enjoy kissing and touching. However, as time goes on, they often become emotionally detached during sex. What once felt like an intimate connection can start to feel more like a transaction, devoid of emotion.

While sex with a narcissist may initially seem satisfying in the love bombing stage, over time the novelty wears off for them and these encounters tend to lose their emotional depth, leaving you feeling empty.