Bipolar Mum Journey

It’s crucial to shed light on just how dangerous a narcissistic ex and his “flying monkeys” can be. I continue to endure narcissistic abuse from him and those who support him.

Here’s how his flying monkeys have played their roles:

First, there was a girl from school who constantly called me to brag about being with my ex and how she was now the mother of my son. She also made derogatory comments about me throughout.

Next, another girl from school sent me photos of my ex in her underwear. I’m not sure what she hoped to achieve, but it only confirmed suspicions I had about him for a long time.

Then there was his long-term partner, whose entire family subjected me to slander and abuse, making it impossible for me to maintain contact with my son.

Following that was a woman who had lost custody of her own child, yet my ex thought it was appropriate to have her around our son. She dressed provocatively around him, watched sexually explicit programs in his presence, and caused me immense stress.

The fifth woman is someone I’m currently in contact with, who eventually got a restraining order against him. She told me he had manipulated her into thinking I was insane and that if I ever saw him, I would kill him. It wasn’t until he harmed her as well that she sought legal protection. She also informed me that he encourages my son to extort money from my adoptive grandmother.

Lastly, his current partner has multiple children and has allowed him into their lives, as well as our son, despite how toxic he has become. Tragically, our son has been mentally ruined by his fathers influence. Although I love my son, I have to acknowledge that he is no longer safe to be around. He recently put his 15-year-old girlfriend in a chokehold, and social services had to intervene because she was underage. This woman is now stalking my social media accounts.

There have been more women in between, but I can’t remember them all.

I’m at a loss as to what more I can do to escape this nightmare and get him out of my life. As a last resort, I’ve risked my reputation by appearing on three podcasts to expose this man and his flying monkeys.

My advice to anyone reading this is to conduct an extensive background check on any new partner, especially if you have children. You can usually sense when something isn’t right and always trust that gut feeling. I’m now living a life sentence in hell. The police won’t help, and my current partner of 15 years is unable to do anything because, as a father to our children, any criminal charges against him would ruin his livelihood. So here I am, stuck in this torment for the rest of my life.